亲子关系不是一种恒久的占有,而是生命中一场深厚的缘分,我们既不能使孩子感到童年贫瘠,又不能让孩子觉得成年窒息。做父母,是一场心胸和智慧的远行。不仅仅是做父母,人生的许多时刻都应该懂得进退。我是一个妈妈,今年57岁,退休两年,我的儿子今年31岁,他在我退休那年结的婚。一直以来我都非常宠儿子,他结婚了,我自然也承担起照顾他和儿媳妇的责任,这在我看来是理所应当的事。本来我是想着儿子结婚后要和我们老两口儿生活在一起,可因为老伴的劝 Parent-child relationship is not a permanent possession, but a deep fate in life, we can not make children feel childhood impoverished, but also can not make children feel adult suffocation. Parents, is a mind and wisdom of the trip. Not just parents, many times in life should know how to advance and retreat. I am a mother, 57 years old this year, two years of retirement, my son 31 years old this year, he married my retired year. I have always been a favorite son, he was married, I naturally take care of him and daughter-in-law’s responsibility, which in my opinion is what deserved. Originally, I was thinking of my son married to be married with us, but because of his wife’s advice