作为父母,当你们有这些情况时,需要引起注意了:对孩子的某些特点特别敏感;特别不能忍受孩子的某些特点;对孩子的某些特点特别欣赏;完全不了解孩子的感受和需要;努力想纠正孩子的行为却发现越来越糟;亲子之间无法沟通。如果我是这样的父母,怎么办?如果你恰巧是这样的父母,那在你前面就有两个功课需要做:一是处理自己的情结,二是重新认识孩子。 As parents, when you have these situations, you need to be aware of: some of the characteristics of children are particularly sensitive; in particular, can not tolerate some of the characteristics of children; especially for some of the characteristics of children; do not understand the child’s feelings and needs ; Trying to correct the child’s behavior was found to be getting worse; parent-child communication between. If I were such a parent, what to do? If you happen to be such a parent, then there are two homework lessons ahead of you that need to be done: one is to manage one’s complex and the second is to recognize the child again.