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你可能花费了大量的时间竭力去赢得他人的赞许,或因得不到赞许而忧心忡忡。生活中我们的一言一行若能得到别人的肯定,总是快乐的;遭到别人反对,多半是不舒坦的。这是人之常情。如果寻求赞许已成为你生活的一种需要,那么你现在就该有些行动了。首先,你应该认识到:寻求赞许与其说是生活的必需,不如说是个人的欲望。当然, 谁都希望博得掌声、听到赞许或受到称颂。在精神上受到抚慰会给人一种美妙的感觉,而且也确实没有必要在生活中放弃这种享受。那么,能否由此得到结论:为了得到别人的肯定和赞许,我们应该
You may have spent a great deal of time trying to win the approval of others, or worrying about getting disapproval. If we can get the affirmation of others, every word and deed in life will always be happy, it will be unpleasant when it is opposed by others. This is human nature. If seeking approval has become a necessity in your life, you should do something now. First, you should realize that seeking praises is not so much a necessity of life as an individual’s desire. Of course, everyone hopes to win applause, hear praise or be praised. Being mentally soothing gives a wonderful feeling, and it is not really necessary to give up this enjoyment in life. So, can you come to the conclusion: In order to get the affirmation and praise of others, we should