很小的时候,觉得流氓是世界上最可怕的人;长大一些,就被渐渐告知不要和陌生人讲话,尤其是路途中的陌生男人,因为主动和女人搭讪的男人大多是好色的,不是好男人。于是20岁之前严格遵守这一不成文的规定,看到陌生的男人必先提高警惕,如果遇到主动问寒问暖的,绝对撒腿就跑。一直以为好色等同于流氓,很可怕。 20岁之后学会了理性地看待世界,看待世界中存在的男人女人,才把流氓和好色从本质上区别开 When I was young, I thought the gangster was the most horrible person in the world. When I was older, she was gradually told not to talk to strangers, especially unfamiliar men on the road, because most men who take the initiative to talk to women were lustrous, not Good man So strict compliance with this unwritten rule before the age of 20 to see a strange man must first be vigilant, if you have the initiative to ask for warmth, absolutely ran away. Always thought horsepower is equivalent to rogue, very scary. After 20 years of age learned to rationally look at the world, look at the world of men and women, only the hooligans and good color to distinguish essentially