儿子刚上小学还不到一个星期,回到家便向我们宣布:他喜欢上了他们班的一个女同学。这让我和丈夫都感到十分惊奇,因为在这以前我们从来没有听过儿子以异样的口气谈论过女孩子,他对异性的关注也比我们意想的要早得多。还好,我们与儿子一直平等相处,时常在一起讨论学习、生活和社会上的各种问题。为了让儿子能够把自己的真实想法告诉我们,我以一种十分随意的口气问儿子:“她叫什么名字,你能不能说说你喜欢她的原因?”于是,儿子以一种大人的口气跟我讲起他喜欢 Less than a week after his son was in elementary school, he returned home and announced to us that he loved having a classmate in their class. It surprised me and my husband because before that we never heard my son talk about girls in a strange tone, and he paid more attention to the opposite sex than we thought. Fortunately, we have always been on an equal footing with our son and are often discussing various aspects of learning, living and social issues. In order to let my son be able to tell us his true thoughts, I asked my son with a very casual tone: “What’s her name, can you tell me why you like her?” "So, my son is an adult I talk about the tone of his favorite