时下,一些人的心态在有的场合有的事件中显得那么微妙,也就是那么错综复杂、似是而非,没有显露得十分清楚,当然难以被捉摸的十分明白。比如乘车,若遇上妇孺老弱,因为离自己稍稍远了点儿,见离得近些的不给让座位,自己有意让座却不去付诸行动,怕遭“近些的”白眼或是言语的讥讽;比如邻里婆媳同事间的不和,彼此明明知道不和会带来许多生活上的不愉快或是工作上的不协调,已经厌倦了不和的气氛, Nowadays, some people’s mentality appears subtle in some occasions, that is, it is so complex and paradoxical that it is not clearly revealed and certainly it is very hard to be elusive. Such as riding a car, in case of women and children old and weak, because a little farther away from their own point of view, see the more recent leave to give up their seats, but do not want to let their own action, fear of being Cynical or verbal sarcasm; such as the discord between the colleagues in the neighborhood law-abidance, knowing each other clearly that discord will bring many life unhappiness or job uncoordination, have been tired of the discordant atmosphere,