编辑同志:我今年68岁了,43年前和丈夫结婚时他是镇上小学的代课老师,工资少得可怜,却起早贪晚很辛苦,所以家里的大事小情我都不用他管。有了大女儿后,我既要上班又要照顾孩子,就让他做些家务活儿,可他总找借口推托,有时还发脾气,为了孩子我忍了。二女儿出生不久,学校改制,丈夫被辞退。我就想办法托关系给他找工作,可是他说不用我管,要休 Editor’s Comrade: I am 68 years old. When I married her husband 43 years ago, he was a substitute teacher in a town elementary school. His salary was too small. With the eldest daughter, I have to go to work and take care of children, let him do some housework, but he always excuses, sometimes temper, for the sake of my child. Second daughter was born shortly after school restructuring, her husband was dismissed. I would like to find ways to help him find a job, but he said I do not have to rest