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自尊是包括孩子在内的每个人的心理需要,是人们心灵的保护层,家长在关心教育孩子时却总会有意无意地伤害他们的自尊。主要表现如下: 1．过分保护孩子父母处处为子女考虑,担心他们的安危,孩子就像生活在温室里的花朵,经不起风吹雨打,过分的关爱保护会使其自身抵抗能力下降,带给孩子的信号是“你不行,你需要保护”。这种伤害是无形的,后果却是孩子遇到挫折易自卑。 2．过分注重成绩南京某民办学校初三女生小林,今年期中考试成绩由年级前几名“滑落”到年级二十几名,父母抓紧监督,小林感觉学
Self-esteem is the psychological needs of everyone, including children. It is a protective layer of people’s minds. Parents who care about educating their children will always hurt their self-esteem intentionally or unintentionally. The main performance is as follows: 1. Excessive protection of children Parents are considered for their children everywhere, worried about their safety, the child is like living in the greenhouse of flowers, can not stand the wind and rain, excessive care and protection will make its own resistance to decline, the signal to the children is “You can not do, you need protection.” This injury is invisible, but the consequences of the child encountered frustration easily inferiority. 2. Overemphasis on performance Nanjing third-year girl Kobayashi some private schools, the mid-term exam grades from the top few grades before “fall” to grade twenty, parents pay close attention to the supervision of Kobayashi