有一段时间,我家孩子好像有点问题,性格内向,爱哭,爱发脾气,还爱生病。为此我非常焦虑,看了无数的育儿书,咨询了很多专家,也去听了N多讲座,但是那些所谓的绝招用在我儿子身上,全然无效!问题好像还越来越严重,他开始偷拿小东西、撒谎。为此我和老公的争执也越发升级,原来是因为养育方式问题争辩,现在变成吵架,甚至开始考虑离婚!正巧,公公来北京探望朋友,在我家小住。有一次,他在跟我聊天时说起他小时候因为父母总吵架而很长一段时间喜欢拿刀割伤自己,还想自杀。公公语重 For some time, my family seemed to have problems with children, introverted, crying, losing their temper, and still getting sick. To this end, I am very anxious, I watched countless parenting books, consulted with many experts and listened to N lectures, but those so-called trick used against my son were totally invalid. The problem seemed to be getting worse and he started Stole something, lie. To this end, my husband and I have also been more and more disputes, originally because of the issue of parenting argue, and now become a quarrel, and even began to consider divorce !, coincidentally, the father to Beijing to visit friends, live in my house. Once, when talking to me about his childhood, he talked about his childhood because of his parents quarrel and for a long time like to take a knife to cut himself, want to commit suicide. Father and son language heavy