家庭关系的核心是夫妻关系。夫妻关系是人们自我选择的结果,也是一种最为亲密的长期持续存在的特殊的社会关系,而这种长期存在的亲密关系并不会在真空状态中进行,它会受到生活中那些或大或小的困难和问题所影响,因此,夫妻之间难免会出现各种各样的矛盾和冲突。夫妻双方是否能够及时有效地解决这些冲突,不仅影响到夫妻本身的和谐状态,还会影响到双方的生理状态,更会延伸并殃及家庭其他成员的心身健康。 The heart of family relations is the relationship between husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is the result of people’s self-selection, but also one of the most intimate long-term special social relations, and this long-standing intimacy will not be carried out in a vacuum, it will be life or those big or Small difficulties and problems, so there will inevitably be a variety of contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife. Whether the couple can resolve these conflicts promptly and effectively will not only affect the harmonious status of the husband and wife, but also affect the physiological status of both parties and will extend and affect the mental and physical health of other family members.