特约谈话 祖辈人和年轻父母亲的思想观念和生活习惯不大相同。这种差异在年轻父母没有孩子之前还不成太大的问题。伴随着孩子出世所带来的喜悦,两代人在看待、管教孩子上的矛盾也就浮出水面,且大有越来越尖锐的势头 如果处理不好,这种分歧还可能影响到双方的感情。在幼儿园开家长会,爷爷、奶奶或孩子父母谈到这个问题,都非常苦恼。本期我们请曾多年从事幼教工作,且亲自带过孙子的王金贵老师,讲一讲她的故事,谈一谈她的体会。希望王老师的现身说法能给处于苦恼中的爷爷、奶奶们一些帮助 Special conversation Ancestors and young parents have different ideas and habits. This difference is not a big problem until young parents have children. With the joy brought about by the birth of the child, the two generations are looking at and the contradictions governing the children are also surfaced, and the increasingly sharp trend, if handled poorly, may also affect the differences between the two sides feeling. Parents meeting in kindergarten, grandpa, grandma or child parents talked about this issue, are very distressed. In this issue, we asked Wang Jigui, a teacher who has worked in preschool education for many years and brought his grandson in person, to talk about her story and talk about her experience. I hope Wang’s appearance can give distressed grandfather, grandmother some help