在现实生活中,有很多人觉得做人很累,其实谁不希望自己生活得潇洒自如,轻松自在。但实际生活中往往事与愿违,究其原因主要与行为方式及心理因素有关—— 1.大事做不来,小事不愿做,拒绝尝试新鲜事物。以消极被动的态度对待周围事物,做生活的旁观者,经常躲在生活的角落里。 2.生活目标订得过高,脱离实际,久经拼搏后仍无法实现,从而产生挫折感,意志消沉、情绪低落。 In real life, many people think people are tired, in fact, who do not want to be comfortable and comfortable in their own lives. However, in actual life, they often do things contrary to their wishes. The reasons are mainly related to behavior patterns and psychological factors - 1. Do not do big things, small things do not want to do, refuse to try new things. Passive attitude towards the surrounding things, life bystanders, often hiding in the corner of life. 2. Life goals set too high, out of practice, after hard work still can not be achieved, resulting in frustration, depression, depression.