我的一位朋友告诉我,他亲戚家的一个女孩,在小学里当少先队的副大队长,大队长病了,她就成了代理大队长。有一天,她向妈妈流露,大队长最好再病几天,她的这个代理大队长就能再当下去。我的这位朋友说:“多可怕,小小年纪就有这种欲望。” 类似的故事还可以讲出许多。人,从知事起就有了欲望,开始是小欲望,要一个好玩具,要一些好吃的,要一本好看的书。由于中国几千年的“万般皆下品,唯有做官高”“学而优则仕”的思想传统,一些家长、老师、亲戚,就在日常生活中潜移默化地在向强子幼小的心灵里灌 One of my friends told me that a girl from a relative’s family was a deputy commander and a captain of a young pioneer in primary school. She became deputy captain. One day, she revealed to her mother that it was better for the chieftain to recover for a few days and that her acting chief captain could go on with it. My friend said: “More scary, young age has this desire.” There are many similar stories to tell. People, since the governor has had the desire to start a small desire, to a good toy, to some delicious, to a nice book. Due to the traditional Chinese tradition of “doing everything in the best, only serving as a commanding officer,” “learning as a good official,” some parents, teachers, and relatives in China are subtly moving toward the young people’s hearts in the Qiangzu Irrigation