某公司资材股长蔡先生,结婚十几年,夫妻俩鹣鲽情深,从未吵过架,这是公司上下人尽皆知的事。 有人问他有何秘诀,他没讲什么大哲理,只见他“轻松”地说: “观念上,婚后,不要视她是“太太”,仍然视她是“情人”,也就是说,婚后继续谈“恋爱”。不要把她由“情人”变成“太太”。做法上:常 常 送束(朵)花,常常给她一些小 Mr. Cai, a company material director, married more than 10 years, the couple 鹣 鲽 affectionate, never quarrel, which is the company well-known thing. Someone asked him what secret he had, and what he did not say about the great philosophy. I saw him saying “easily”: “Conceptually, after marriage, do not think of her as a” wife, “and still regard her as a” lover. “In other words, After marriage continue to talk about ”love.“ Do not change her from ”lover“ to ”wife." Practices: often send flowers (flowers), often give her some small