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现如今,一些父母仍然信奉“棍棒之下出孝子” 的旧观念,宝宝一做错事情,就拉过来打屁股。至于 “你再不……小心我打你屁屁”或“你……看我不打 你屁屁”这类威胁的话语更是一些父母常用的“药 帖”。 父母想要教育孩子,想要孩子懂事、礼貌,这是无 可厚非的,但打屁屁对孩子不但不起作用,有时甚至会 使他们的行为更糟糕。 父母该明白的一点是:规矩不等于惩罚。规矩是生 动的、积极的、有教育意义的;惩罚则是消极的,它具 有巨大破坏性,尤其对于一个2岁的孩子来说。打屁屁 这种常用的惩罚方式虽然是一种历史悠久的老传统了, 但用它来引导孩子的行为却是一种十分糟糕的办法,它 根本无法帮助你把孩子教导成你想要的那个样子。
Nowadays, some parents still believe in the old notion of “filial sons under the sticks.” When a baby makes a mistake, he pulls the spanking. As for the “you do not ... ... be careful I hit your ass ” or “you ... ... I see you do not hit your ass ” This kind of threatening discourse is more commonly used by some parents “medicine posts ”. Parents want to educate their children, want children sensible, polite, which is understandable, but farting not only does not work for children, and sometimes even make their behavior worse. The point that parents should understand is that rules do not equal punishment. The rules are vivid, positive and educational; penalties are negative, and they are devastating, especially for a 2-year-old. Assassination, a commonly used method of punishment, is a long tradition, but using it to guide a child’s behavior is a terrible solution that simply can not help you teach your child what you want That looks like.