事例一:卡耐基小时候是一个公认的非常淘气的坏男孩。在他9岁的时候,他父亲把继母娶进家门。当时他们是居住在弗吉尼亚州乡下的贫苦人家,而继母则来自家境较好的家庭。他父亲一边向她介绍卡耐基,一边说:“亲爱的,希望你注意这个全县最坏的男孩,他可让我头疼死了,说不定会在明天 Example 1: Carnegie as a child is a very naughty bad boy. When he was 9 years old, his father married his stepmother into the house. At that time they were poor people living in the Virginia countryside, while stepmothers came from better-off families. As his father introduced Carnegie to her, he said: "My dear, I hope you pay attention to the worst boy in this county. He may make me headache and die, maybe tomorrow.