我这个人挺好面子。好面子绝不能跟虚伪划等号,也不能跟自私划等号。可我的老婆却不这么认为,她把我好面子理解成虚伪,理解成自私,起码是虚伪和自私的具体表现。由于我和她对好面子这件事情在理解上大相径庭,就出了一些让我很尴尬的事情。在好多人看来,我和老婆的婚姻不那么般配:我从小生在农村,长在农村,30岁时才成了城里人;而她生在城市,长 I am a good person. A good face must not be equated with hypocrisy, nor can it be equated with selfishness. But my wife did not think so, she understood my face as a hypocrisy, understood as selfish, at least hypocrisy and selfish specific performance. Since I was totally different in understanding that she was having a good face, there were some things that made me very embarrassed. For many people, the marriage between my wife and I was not as good as that: I grew up in the countryside and in the countryside as an urban resident when I was 30;