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人格魅力中有一种成分叫“大气”。无论一个人的地位是高是低,事业是大是小,身份是显是微,魅力如何都得看“大气”与否。大气主要表现在3个方面:对人,要宽容,不斤斤计较。古人云:“君子要忍人所不能忍,容人所不能容,处人所不能处。”人与人之间要善于沟通,珍惜缘分,以诚相待,见贤思齐,在共同目标下求合作,在相互合作中求合力,在相互信任中求发展。对事,要超脱,不深陷其中。事无论大小,不管好坏,都不要太在意,太当回事儿。切莫一见好事就喜形于色,一遇坏事就愁眉苦脸。遇事不敢担当,怎么能成大器?
There is a component of personality charm called “atmosphere ”. Whether a person’s status is high or low, career is big or small, identity is obvious, charm has to see “atmosphere ” or not. The atmosphere mainly in three aspects: people, to be tolerant, not preoccupied. The ancients said: “a gentleman to be patient can not tolerate, tolerance can not tolerate, where people can not place.” Between people should be good at communication, cherish the fate, treat each other sincerely, Under common goals, seek cooperation, seek common efforts in mutual cooperation and seek development through mutual trust. On the matter, to be detached, not deep in them. Regardless of size, good or bad, do not be too concerned, too seriously children. Do not see a good deed on a happy day, a bad thing on the frown. Fail to play a case, how can become amplifier?