你有没有经历过这种时候,感觉周围每个人身上都有不能接受的缺点,遇到的事情也不尽如人意,买到的东西总有这样或那样的瑕疵……生活的本来面目就是这样,有不尽如人意的一面,也有令人欢欣愉悦的一面,还有中性的一面,所有这些并不以人的意志为转移,过多的评价和讨论都不起作用。我们能做的就是调整心态,接受它,充分利用外部世界赋予的一切来缓和情绪并且快乐起来,这些远比无谓的评价要好得多!我们能做些什么呢?首先,要学会为已经拥有的一切感到满足与感激。你拥有很多,也许自己都未曾察觉,父母、健康、良好的学习环境,还有只要自己努力 Have you ever experienced this time, I feel everyone around us have unacceptable shortcomings encountered are not satisfactory, buy something there is always such or that flaw ... ... the true face of life is like this , There are not satisfactory side, there is also a joyous side, there are neutral side, all of these are not the will of the people as the transfer, too much evaluation and discussion will not work. What we can do is to adjust our mindset, to accept it, to take full advantage of everything the outside world gives us to ease emotions and to be happy, which is far better than unnecessary criticism! What can we do? First, learn to apply what you already have Everything is satisfied and grateful. You have a lot, perhaps you have not been aware of, parents, health, good learning environment, as long as their own efforts