在现代社交活动中,我们总是无法避免地遭遇到对自己充满敌意的人,也许因为一些莫须有的传闻,也许因为情感、经济等利益的冲突,也许因为对问题的主观看法和立场不同。 如果敌意只是沉默着的一股暗流,倒容易对付,可是如果敌意以责难、污辱甚至人身攻击的方式爆发,我们如何应对呢?逃避当然是懦夫的行为,我们不能容忍自己的形象和尊严被人玷污。但是,面对面的争吵、谩骂,只会使矛盾升级、是非混淆,造成无法收拾的恶劣后果。 In modern social activities, we always inevitably encounter people who are hostile to ourselves. Perhaps because of some unwarranted rumors, perhaps due to the conflicts of interest such as emotion and economy, perhaps because of the subjective opinions and positions on the issues. If the hostility is only a silent undercurrent, it is easy to deal with. But how can we cope if the hostility erupts in the manner of censure, humiliation or even personal attacks? It is certainly a coward to escape evasion. We can not tolerate being exposed to the image and dignity Tarnished However, face-to-face bickering and verbal abuse will only escalate the contradictions and will not cause any confusion and cause unmanaged adverse consequences.