一、针对真正的进步“会不会表扬”比“表扬多少次”更重要。一次恰当的表扬比十次泛泛的夸奖好得多,表扬不应该是针对孩子的表面成绩,而应该针对他们真正的进步。针对因为粗心马虎而丢了“不应该丢”的分数的孩子,可表扬孩子在细心认真方面的进步。 First, for real progress “Will praise ” than “Praise how many times ” more important. An appropriate compliment is much better than ten general compliments, and praise should not be directed at the child’s apparent accomplishments, but rather at their real progress. Aiming for a child who has lost “carelessly sloppy” scores that “should not be dropped” may be a tribute to the child’s progress in becoming more attentive.