班主任在与学生相处中 ,经常会碰到如何处理对学生严与爱的关系问题。传统教育观有一个口头禅 :“严师出高徒。”其观点是主张严格。随着时代的发展和西方教育思想的影响 ,又有一种新说 :“顺其自然 ,物极必反。”其本意是赞成宽容。这两种观点都含哲理 ,不必赘述。表面看 ,严 The class teacher often encounters the problem of how to deal with the relationship between student’s strictness and love among students. There is a mantra in the traditional education concept: “Strictly disciplining high disciples.” Its view is strict. With the development of the times and the influence of Western educational thoughts, there is another new saying: “Go with it naturally, the object will be the opposite.” Its intention is to endorse tolerance. Both of these viewpoints contain philosophical ideas and do not need to go into details. On the surface, strict