当我们面对别人的羞辱时,应充分地使自己拥有一份内心的平静.虽然那些公然地、直接羞辱人的语言不论是无聊的、卑鄙的、恶毒的,抑或是残酷的,却都有一个共同点——说话的人很冲动。这时你切不可因他一句辱骂的挑衅,而受到感染,变得象他一样失去理智.应付辱骂挑衅的基本对策是保持冷静安祥,不要因别人的冒犯而张口结舌.在羞辱面前,一定要做到以下几点:一、切忌不分具体对象和情形而直接 When we face the humiliation of others, we should give ourselves enough of a peace of mind.Although the language that is openly and directly humiliating, whether boring, vile, vicious, or cruel, has One thing in common - the person who speaks is very impulsive. At this time, you should not be infected by any one of his insulting insults, and you will become as irrational as yours. The basic countermeasure against insults and provocations is to remain calm and secure and not to blame others for their offenses. Do the following: First, should not be divided into specific objects and situations directly