聪明人善于处世，因为他了解人们的内心，知道人们需要什么喜欢什么讨厌什么反对什么，其实最为重要的是肯定。人们希望得到对方的肯定。我曾经听到别人议论一位新闻出版界的中年干部，说他干了２０多年业务水平依然很低，这是否定了人家。当时有几个人在场，我没有在意。... Clever people are good at life, because he understands people’s heart, know what people like what they hate what oppose what, in fact, the most important thing is sure. People want to get each other’s approval. I once heard others discussing with a middle-aged cadre in the press and publishing industry. He said that he has maintained a low standard of business for more than two decades and this has denied people. There were a few people present, I did not mind. ...