18.怀家教智慧,筑成长阶梯教育家雅思贝尔斯曾说:“教育是一朵云触碰另一朵云,一束光簇拥另一束光,一颗心连接另一颗心,”而急切的家庭会否知道,不苛求、励进步的教育智慧,才是筑就孩子成长阶梯的最好工具。一贯优秀的孩子稍出偏差,便惹来惩罚与斥责;而并不突出的孩子取得进步,获得了鼓励的亲吻。这喜哀之间,奖罚的标准让我们不禁疑惑:对孩子的教育何必分分苛求?相比严苛得近乎无情的家庭调教下的高分学 18. With the wisdom of her family and building the ladder of growth, the educator, Jaspers, once said: “Education is a cloud that touches another cloud, one beam of light embraces another, and one heart connects another.” "Whether an eager family knows that education wisdom that does not require and encourage progress is the best tool for building a child’s growth ladder. Children who have always had excellent deviations cause them to punish and reprimand, while those who are not outstanding have made progress and have received encouraging kisses. In this sadness, the standard of rewards and punishments can not help but wonder: why should the education of children be demanding? Compared with the high scores of the harsh and almost ruthless family training