你是一个有着完美道德标准的孩子,所以,虽然你从不曾用言语更不曾用行为伤害那位女生,但你还是为自己内心的对于她的“纠结”情绪而愧疚。同时,你也希望你的朋友,包括你不太喜欢的同学,比如她,也严格地执行你制定的“标准”。可能,那些标准在你看来是“天经地义”的,但我们不可能苛求我们身边的人都一丝不苟地来照办。比如,她爱八卦,如果她的八卦没有给相关的人造成麻烦的话,那就让她继续“八卦”呗,就像有些水果有特殊的气味, You are a child with perfect moral standards, so although you never used words to hurt the girl more than you did, you still feel guilty about your inner “tangled” emotions. At the same time, you also hope that your friends, including those you do not like, such as her, will strictly enforce the “standard” you have set. Probably those standards seem to you “perfect”, but we can not insist that the people around us scrupulously follow suit. For example, she loves gossip. If her gossip does not cause any trouble for the person concerned, let her continue with “gossip”, just as some fruits have a special smell,