在阅读这些指导之前,需要说明的是,第一,这些原则、指导条文只有与父母个人的经验相结合,才能产生更好的效果;第二,我不仅谈到如何指导,也谈到了为什么要这样指导;第三,在这些指导中,不仅仅注意如何避免媒介的消极影响,还要积极利用媒介的积极影响。其实,在大多数情况下,媒介是有很多积极影响的。 Before reading these guidelines, what needs to be clarified is that firstly, these principles and guiding principles can only produce better results if they are combined with the personal experience of parents. Second, I not only talk about how to guide but also why Thirdly, in these guidelines, we should not only pay attention to how to avoid the negative influence of the media, but also make active use of the positive influence of the media. In fact, in most cases, the media has many positive effects.