“孩子大了,不听话了,不好管了。”不少家长这样说。可是,你有没有想一想,自己说的、管的对不对呢?孩子已经上了高中或者大学,甚至参加工作了,可你还总是把他们当作小娃娃(其实对小娃娃的教育也要讲点艺术),什么事都要千叮咛、万嘱咐,什么事都恨不得你替他们去做。有的孩子住校了,家长还三天两头去,不是送吃的、洗穿的,就是查学习、问分数……然而任你一片苦心,孩子却对你不满意!而且也妨碍了孩子独立生活能力的培养和独立思考习惯的形成,这是很有害于他们日后成才的!下面是一位高中一年级学生的短文,文中抒写了他的苦恼,不知家长们看后作何感想? 编者 “Children big, disobedient, not good tube. ” Many parents say. However, have you ever wondered what you are saying, right? The children have gone to high school or college or even to work, but you always treat them as little ones Also have to talk about art), everything should be thousands of exhortations, Wan asked, what can not wait for you to do for them. Some children live in school, parents are also three days to go, not to eat, wash, is to check learning and ask scores ... However, you are a painstaking child is not satisfied with you! But also impede the independence of children The development of life skills and the formation of independent thinking habits, which is very harmful to their future success! Here is a short draft of a high school students, the text describes his distress, I do not know what parents feel after watching?