他是缺乏同情心吗? 我的儿子今年6岁半,他比较聪明,再加上可爱的外表,所以认识或不认识的人都会情不自禁地夸一夸他。同时,我发现孩子太缺乏对他人的关心、爱护和同情了! 举个小例子:一家人吃东西,我们总是让他先拿给爷爷、奶奶,可只要下次我们不提醒,他就会只顾自己吃!为此,我们说了他不知多少次!可是他叔叔的女儿,也就是他妹妹,却不是这样。即使大人不说,她每次吃东西也一定要让周围每个人先吃! 另外,还有一点,就是儿子说起话来总以大人自居。妹妹在家有时不听话,儿子不是去告诉婶婶,而是直接教训妹妹,方法就是“打”和用严厉的语气说妹妹,弄得大家心里都不愉快。如妹妹把袋子扔到地上,她妈妈正在批评她,我那儿子上去对着妹妹就一巴掌;爷爷叫妹妹不要玩一次性水杯,儿子马上跑过去,抢过来扔到地上或把它弄坏;奶奶叫妹妹不要钻桌子,儿子干脆用板凳挡着不让妹妹出来……这些事都不大、却反映出儿子缺乏同情心的一面,因为这不是一般小孩子的做法! 在学校里,儿子也不能很好地与同学相处,总是喜欢打打这个,拍拍那个,搞烦了还故意撕人家本子,弄翻人家的豆奶! 这一切让我很担心,却不知该怎么办。一位心急如焚的母亲 Is he lacking in compassion? My son, six and a half years old, is smarter and has a lovely appearance, so people who know or do not know can not help but boast about him. At the same time, I found that children are too lacking in caring, compassionate and sympathetic to others! Give a small example: one family eats, we always let him take Grandpa and Grandma first, but as long as we do not warn him, he will For this reason, we said he did not know how many times! But his uncle’s daughter, that is, his sister, but not so. Even if adults do not say, she must eat every time around to eat each person! In addition, there is another point, that is, his son always speaking adults. Sometimes, my sister is not obedient at home. Instead of telling her aunt, my son is teaching her sister directly. The way to do this is to “fight” and say her sister in a harsh tone, making everyone feel unhappy. Such as my sister throw the bag on the ground, her mother is criticizing her, my son went up to the sister slap; Grandma called her sister do not play disposable cups, the son ran right away, snatched it to the ground or to destroy it; My grandma called her sister not to drill the table, the son simply block the bench with his sister out ... these are not big, but it reflects the son’s lack of compassion side, because this is not a child’s practice! In school, son I can not get along well with my classmates. I always like to beat this, pat it, get bored and deliberately rip people’s nostrils upset people’s soy milk! All this makes me very worried, but I do not know what to do. An anxious mother