“失去了方知珍贵”,这是人们常蚤说的话,是指拥有某人某物时没有太在意、太珍惜,而失去后充满后悔和留恋这一思维似乎已成了不少人的惯常定势,好像不如此不足以证明心灵的感悟和人情味的丰厚。其实,这种怀旧、向后看的思维本身就存在着误区,因为失去的未必最珍贵。美国影片《新娘不是我》就说出了这个理儿。 朱莉亚与迈克已相识九年.而自己是否爱他并不清楚,直到有一天得知迈克要与甘蜜结婚,她才意识到原来 “Lost the precious side of knowledge”, which is often said fleas, refers to the possession of someone not care too much, too cherish, but after losing full of regret and nostalgia seems to have become the habit of many people Fixed, it seems not so inadequate to prove the spiritual insights and richness of human touch. In fact, this nostalgic, backward-looking thinking itself there is a misunderstanding, because the loss may not be the most precious. The U.S. film “The bride is not me” said this. Julia and Mike have been together for nine years, and it is unclear whether he loves him or not, until one day he learns that Mike wants to marry him, she realizes it