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做父母的在家庭教育中时常会遇到这样的情况:你要孩子这样,他偏要那样;你说这种事不能做,他偏要做;你说这本书小孩不能看,他却偷偷地看。这种现象在心理学中就叫“逆反心理”。逆反心理是人们在一定的外界因素作用下,对某些事物或结论产生的一种相反的反应情绪。逆反心理人皆有之,它具有两面性。在某种情况下我们可以主动利用人的逆反心理来达到教育目的,激将法就是一个例子。这里着重谈谈怎样对待孩子产生的那种不利于我们达到教育目的的逆反心理。先谈谈在什么情况下孩子容易产生这种逆反心理。
Parents in family education often encounter such a situation: you want your child so, he partial to that; you say that such things can not be done, he partial to do; you say the book can not see the child, he secretly Look. This phenomenon is called “reverse psychology” in psychology. Reversal of psychology is the reaction of people to certain things or conclusions under certain external factors. Everyone has anti-psychosis, it has two sides. In some cases, we can take the initiative to use people’s rebellious psychology to achieve the purpose of education, stimulating the law is an example. Here we will focus on how to treat the child’s rebelliousness that is not conducive to our educational goals. First talk about under what circumstances the child prone to such rebellious.