班主任工作时间长了,容易形成一个思维定势:和同学谈话,不自觉地总以教育者的身份居高临下,或者批评,或者教育,或者指点人生迷津,或者指出缺点和失误。这样的做法,老师们习以为常,感觉自己尽到了老师的职责。可是,事与愿违,往往学生并不领情,并且产生逆反心理,拒绝老师的说教,走到事物的反面。所以作为教师,一定要注意反思自己的言行,调整 Class teacher long working hours, easy to form a mindset: talk with classmates, unconsciously as an educator, always condescending, or criticism, or education, or pointing life, or point out shortcomings and mistakes. In this way, teachers are used to feeling that they have fulfilled their teacher’s duties. However, contrary to expectations, students often do not appreciate, and produce rebellious, rejected the teacher’s preaching, go to the opposite side of things. So as a teacher, we must pay attention to reflect on their own words and deeds, adjust