张老师:我经常因为孩子发火,有很多事情我反复要求了他还是做不到。孩子毕业后,我给他选择好工作,他却不喜欢。他也说不太清楚究竟喜欢什么。他反复地尝试各种曾经喜欢过的工作,却坚持不了多久就放弃了。他的很多想法在我们父母眼里是很不成熟的,如何让他理解明白呢?吴女士 Zhang: I often get angry because of my child. There are many things that I repeatedly asked him or he could not do. After graduating from a child, I gave him a good job, but he did not like it. He also said that he did not know exactly what he liked. He repeatedly tried all kinds of work he had enjoyed, but he did not give up long before. Many of his ideas in our parents are very immature, how to make him understand?