宁夏的刘雨欣来信说:上高中后,我和同学打电话,能说上半个小时。可在家,却和父母常常没话说,我更愿意关上房门,一个人做作业、玩电脑。答:你这个问题,几乎每个人成长中都经历过。有的家长甚至说,孩子在家每天只有三句话:“嗯、好的、知道了。”你说东他说西,沟通完全不在一个频率上。高中阶段正值青春期。我们的思想开始步入成熟,渴望独立,不愿事事听从父母的指挥。可在父母眼里,我们还是那个长不大的孩 Liu Yuxin of Ningxia wrote: After attending high school, I called with my classmates and could speak for half an hour. Can be at home, but often have nothing to say with their parents, I prefer to close the door, a homework, play computer. A: You have experienced this problem in almost everybody’s growth. Some parents even say that children have only three sentences at home everyday: “Well, well, I got it. ” You said east he said west, communication is completely out of frequency. High school is adolescence. Our minds are beginning to mature, longing for independence, unwilling to obey the commands of their parents. In the eyes of parents, we are still not grown children