人有时候往往很矛盾,就像张爱玲在小说《红玫瑰与白玫瑰》中说的,“也许每一个男子全都有过这样的两个女人,至少两个。娶了红玫瑰,久而久之,红的变了墙上的一抹蚊子血,白的还是‘床前明月光’;娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上沾的一粒饭黏子,红的却是心口上一颗朱砂痣”。 Sometimes people tend to be very contradictory, as Zhang Ailing in the novel “Red Rose and White Rose,” said, “Maybe every man has had such two women, at least two. Married red rose, over time, red Changed the wall of the mosquito a touch of blood, white or ’moonlight bed’; married a white rose, white is a sticky rice on the clothes sticks, red heart is a vermilion ”.