成家之前,你独自一人出去闯荡世界,没问题。成家之后,这个家就是你的所有,子女、爱人,当然还有你,缺一不可。两年前在法国的巴黎,我见到了一位做家政服务的老乡。因为是老乡,又在巴黎做家政服务,而且听说已经在巴黎待了十多年,却没有回一次家,令我感慨,让人唏嘘,也叫人心酸。原来,这位老乡是十多年前跟着一个旅行团到了巴黎,晚上夜游塞纳河的时候,独自一人上了另外一条船,与同行者分离。从此天各一方,一个来自中国偏远地区的农村妇女,撇家舍子,前途未卜,踏上了异国他乡发家致富 Before you become a family, you go out in the world alone, no problem. After you become a family, this family is your all, children, lovers, of course, you, are indispensable. Two years ago in Paris, France, I met a fellow who did domestic service. Because it is fellow, but also in Paris to do domestic service, and I heard that has been in Paris for more than a decade, but did not go back to a home, so I feel sigh, people sigh, but also sad. It turned out that this fellow is more than a decade ago with a tour to Paris, night when the Seine River night, alone on the other boat, separated from their peers. From this day onwards, a rural woman from a remote area in China, leaving her home for a family, has an uncertain future and has embarked on a journey to become wealthy in a foreign country