父母以自己过去的经历教育孩子，没有说服的效果 一位父亲以无法忍受的表情对我说，他的儿子今年读小学五年级，为了考进名牌的私立中学，每天学习得很晚，星期日还上补习班。他看到自己的孩子脸色苍白，缺乏少年应有的朝气和活泼，就开导他说：“我在你那样年龄的时候，可没有 Parents educate their children in their own past without persuasion. One father told me in an intolerable expression that his son was in fifth grade of primary school this year and was studying very late in the day for a privately-run private middle school. Sunday also Cram school. When he saw his child pale and lacking the vitality and liveliness his youth should have, he said to him: "When I was your age, I did not have