我们谈到弟弟会抢姊姊的蜡笔,造成妈妈的困扰,这种情形也会出现在孩子间争夺玩具上,这时该如何处理呢?当然,放任他们争吵是最不理想的方法,家长必须耐着心去慢慢引导他们。比方说,一对兄妹,因为妹妹还明显太小,若是她老想要抢自己还不会玩的东西,如拼图之类,妈妈可以说:“是哥哥的!”如果因此只让哥哥玩,可以想见妹妹又要大吵大闹一番了。其实,有时可以依场合及状况,让先拿到的人先玩。或 We talked about how my brother would rob her sister’s crayons and cause her mother’s distress. This situation will also occur when children compete for toys. What should I do at this time? Of course, letting them fight is the worst way. Parents must With patience to guide them slowly. For example, a brother and sister, because her sister was obviously too small, if she always wanted to grab something he would not play, such as puzzles and the like, my mother can say: “is my brother! ” Play, you can see my sister also quarrel about something. In fact, sometimes people who get first can play first according to the occasion and the situation. or