最重要的事情是把生活改造得更美好,而不是整日沉溺在自怜的深渊里。一天,我正在学步的小女儿达娜想将一把小椅子搬到厨房里去,因为她想站在上面去拿冰箱里的东西。一看到这种情形,我急忙冲过去想扶住她,但还是迟了一步,在我还没来得及奔过去的时候,她已经从椅子上结结实实地摔了下来。就在我扶起小女儿想要看她摔伤了没有时,只见她用自己尚没站稳的小脚,朝那把椅子狠狠地踢了一脚,嘴里还十分生气地骂道:“就是你这个坏家伙,害得我摔倒了!”如果你留心一下幼儿的生活,你一定会发现生活中有很多类似的情形。对小孩 The most important thing is to make life better, rather than indulging in the abyss of self-pity throughout the day. One day I was toddler Dana trying to move a little chair to the kitchen because she wanted to stand on top of the fridge. As soon as I saw this, I quickly rushed past trying to hold her, but I was a little too late. When I had not had time to run past, she had stumbled from the chair. As soon as I raised my little daughter wanting to see her fall, I noticed that she kicked her fiercely with her little foot that she had not yet stood firmly and scolded angrily in her mouth: “This is your bad guy, causing me to fall!” "If you look carefully at your child’s life, you will find a lot of similar situations in life. For children