《圣经·创世纪》中说:女人是上帝在亚当沉睡时,用亚当身上的一条肋骨造成的。此说被许多人用来证明女人天生对于男人的依附性,可是也有人对此作了新颖的解释:上帝不用亚当的头来造女人,是不想让女人成为他的主宰,不用亚当的脚来造女人,是不想让她成为他的奴隶。用亚当的肋骨来造女人,是想要她成为他的伴侣和朋友。这“伴侣”“朋友”说也许正是女性们为之奋斗的男女平等的社会认同在婚姻中的体现。当今众多的女性欣欣然陶醉于女性主义的宣言中,而在真正的男女竞争中,却要欢天喜地地弃权时,再看一 Bible Genesis said: “Woman is a God caused by a rib in Adam’s body as Adam sleeps. This is said to be used by many people to prove a woman’s innate attachment to a man. However, some people have also explained it in a novel way: God does not want Adam to make a woman and does not want a woman to be his master, not Adam’s feet Made a woman, do not want her to be his slave. Making a woman with Adam’s ribs meant she wanted to be his partner and friend. This ”companion“ or ”friend" may be the embodiment of the social identity of equality between men and women that women struggle for. Nowadays, many women are reveling in the declaration of feminism. In the real competition between men and women,