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小寿考试得了2分。家长问:“你怎么办?”小寿说:“我以后努力认真。”家长再问:“什么叫努力认真?”小寿说不出来了。家长大怒,把小寿骂了一顿。家长问:“孩子为什么总是光说不练?”孩子却问:“那我该怎么说呀?” 其实,孩子说这种空话,多半是家长逼的,而且是跟家长学的。孩子得了2分,家长本应该帮他具体分析原因,共同商量解决办法。可是小寿的家长采取的方法,是让孩子表态,下保证。孩子只好说空话。为什么小寿说“我以后努力认真”呢?原因很简单,就是每当小寿成绩不好的时候,家长都习惯于把原因归结在“不努力,不
Little Shou had 2 points exam. Parents ask: ”What do you do? “ Xiao Shou said: ”I will work hard. “ Parents asked: ”What is hard work?“ ”Small life can not be said. Parents angry, Xiao Shou scolded meal. Parents ask: “Why does the child always say nothing? ” The child actually asks: “Then what should I say?” In fact, the child said this kind of empty talk, mostly forced by the parents, but also with parents of. Children got 2 points, parents should have helped him to analyze the specific reasons to jointly discuss solutions. However, the method adopted by the parents of Xiao Shou is to let the children stand their ground and make sure. Children have to talk nonsense. Why life say “I work harder ”? The reason is very simple, that is, whenever the results of poor longevity, parents are accustomed to the reasons attributed to "no hard work, no