一次,与作家秦牧同去无锡。抵达无锡当天,好客的主人派了一辆面包车,请了诗人严辰夫妇作陪去观赏鼋头渚风光。大概是出于客气吧,大家在下车时谦让好一阵,到底秦牧先下车了。游罢归来,在汽车门前竟又是一番推让。这回秦牧十分干脆,毫不客气地第一个上车就座。大家坐 Once, with the writer Qin Mu went to Wuxi. Arrived in Wuxi on the same day, the host of hospitality sent a van, please couple to accompany the poet Yan Chen to watch Yuantouzhu scenery. Probably out of the polite bar, when we get off humility for a while, in the end Qin Mu first get off. Going back to the tour, in front of the car was actually some push. Qin Mu this time very simply, unceremoniously the first car on the seat. We sit