一次,在一饭店吃饭,看到这样一幕:一位母亲自己先吃完饭后,对着正在吃饭的6岁女儿说:“吃饭时注意动作,注意速度,不要唧唧歪歪。”孩子听到这样的话后,不敢出声,赶忙马不停蹄地把一碗饭吃完。我仔细看了一下小孩,有好几次,小孩想要吐出来,但是最后还是忍住吞了下去。虽然,孩子完成了母亲安排的吃饭任务,但似乎并没有从吃饭中得到乐趣。 Once, eating in a restaurant, I saw the scene: a mother himself after a meal, facing the 6-year-old daughter is eating, said: “When eating, pay attention to speed, not to blame.” "Children After listening to such words, dare not say anything, hurried to finish a bowl of rice. I looked carefully at the children, several times, the children want to spit it out, but in the end still hold back swallowed. Although the child completed the task of the mother to arrange meals, but did not seem to have fun from eating.