父母不可能也不必成为教育家或心理学家,甚至不必成为教师或教师的助理,但是,培养一个优秀的孩子,作为父母必须承担的最基本也是最重要的责任就是——培养孩子的良好习惯。习惯是人生之基,而基础水平决定人的发展水平。习惯常常可以决定一个人的成败,也可能导致事业的成败。 It is impossible and unnecessary for parents to become educators or psychologists, and not even to be teachers or teachers’ assistants. However, the most basic and important responsibility for nurturing a good child as a parent must be to cultivate children’s good habits . Habit is the basis of life, and the basic level determines the level of human development. Habits can often determine a person’s success or failure, may also lead to career success or failure.