谁不曾感觉孤独,只是我们老早学会了把那些欲言又止,变成自己与自己的促膝长谈。作为一个八零后的标准独生子女,我们从记事起就已经学会了如何与孤独相处。幼年时,在父母忙于工作的各式假期里,和电视机、布娃娃、童话书做朋友,一整天不开口说话其实也没有什么可怕。后来,一个人到外地工作,下了班回到租来的房间里,一盘零食和一场电影就是自己与自己的放逐。再后来,我想起那些独自生活的老人,他们不看电视,不玩手机,坐在椅子上,自己也可以打发一天的时间。其实,这样的我和他们并没有 Who did not feel lonely, but we have long been learned to put those words to stop, into their own knee-jerk talk. As a standard one-child after 80s, we have learned from the memo how to get along with loneliness. At a young age, during the holidays where parents are busy working, having friends with television sets, dolls, and fairy tales is not terribly frightening all day long. Later, a person to the field work, after work shift back to the rented room, a snack and a movie is himself and his exile. Later, I remembered those elderly people living alone, they do not watch TV, do not play cell phones, sitting in a chair, they can also send a day’s time. Actually, I did not like them