著名的女性问题研究家李小江,在一篇《情人应该知道的故事》中写道,每一个做过情人的女人都有一本血泪账。她从纵深的角度阐述了女人在男权统治下的自我人格的丧失与消亡。她的中心观点是女人作为男人的附属品,在某种程度上纵容了男人的天性,使男人在品性上更喜欢过一个妻子和 Li Xiaojiang, a famous researcher on women’s issues, wrote in an article entitled “Lover’s Story to Be Known” that every woman who has done a lover has a blood and tears book. From a deep perspective, she expounds the loss and disappearance of the self-personality of women under the patriarchal rule. Her central point of view is that women, as men’s accessories, to some extent, connived at the nature of men, so men tend to prefer a wife in character and