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费县地处沂蒙山区腹地,有着光辉灿烂的历史文化,婚俗方面同在费县,山前、山后、河东、河西,在结婚程序方面,也存在差异,但总体上还是一致的,现分成以下几个部分予以介绍: 1、说媒和相亲 男女到了结婚年龄,不管穷、富都会有人张罗着说媳妇,找主。一般在周边,邻庄和山前、山后,由庄里能说会道的长者,根据两家情况,去说媒,也叫提亲。如果通过提亲,认为从经济、地位方面差不多,就选个地点,请双方的长者、亲友互相看一看即可,过去要成亲男女双方是不能见面的,所以,入了洞房,才见新娘(新郎)。后来发展到男女双方可以看看,但开始是通过媒人选择地点,不到家里去,到双方认为可以了,再相互到家中看看。
Fei County is located in the hinterland of Yimeng Mountain, with a glorious history and culture, marriage customs in the same county, Piedmont, Hill, Hedong, Hexi, in the marriage process, there are differences, but generally still the same, is divided into The following sections to be introduced: 1, said the media and blind date men and women to the age of marriage, regardless of poverty, rich people will be said with a wife, looking for the Lord. Generally in the vicinity, adjacent to the village and the mountain, the mountain, by the village can speak of elders, according to two cases, to say the media, also known as marriage. If we propose to take a pro-family relationship and think that we should choose a place from an economic and social standpoint, then both elders and relatives of both parties should take a look at each other. In the past, both men and women could not meet each other. Therefore, when we entered the bridal chamber, we saw the bride (bridegroom). Later developed to both men and women can take a look, but the beginning is through the matchmaker to choose the location, less than home, to the two sides think it OK, and then look at each other at home.