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现在的家长,许多都是从当年的艰苦岁月中跋涉过来的。在对待孩子的零花钱上,我们常常可以听到这样的声音:“如今生活富裕了,不能让孩子再像自己当年那样清苦了。”不少家长在这种补偿心理的驱使下,在孩子身上使劲花钱没商量。有些家长,即使自己生活再拮据,也要节衣缩食、倾心竭力满足孩子的奢求。但同时也常常会听到这些家长抱怨自己的孩子:“我辛辛苦苦地赚钱供你花,可你为什么一点都不珍惜?”更重要的是,当不断的零花钱成为一种习惯之后,“由俭入奢易,由奢入俭难”。由孩子的零花钱引发的社会问题以及由此而展开的家庭教育讨论已成社会的难点、热点。那么,现在的孩子到底有多少钱?这些钱都花到哪里去了?我们该不该给孩子一个自己的“小金库”?如何教会孩子打理自己的钱?……带着这些忧虑和疑问,我们把孩子的“钱袋子”作为本刊视点,希望能够对困惑中的父母们有所警醒和启发。
Many of today’s parents are traveling from the difficult years of the year. We can often hear such voices about the pocket money of our children: “Now that we are living a rich life, we can not allow our children to suffer as much as we did in those days.” Many parents, driven by this compensatory psychology, Children do not discuss the hard money. Some parents, even if their lives are more limited, they must also be scrupulously and consummately devoted themselves to their children’s luxury. But at the same time, I often hear these parents complain about their children: “I work hard to make money for you, but why do you not cherish?” More importantly, when constant pocket money becomes a habit After that, “by frugal extravagance, by extravagance and frugality ”. The social problems triggered by the children’s pocket money and the discussions on family education that have taken place have become a hot topic in society. So, how much money do children now have, and where are these money spent? Should we give our children a “treasure house?”? How to teach children to take care of their own money? ... With these worries And doubt, we put the child “money bag ” as the publication point of view, hoping to be able to wake up the puzzled parents and inspired.