有条件的“爱”让重点中学女生徘徊自杀边缘。专家:警惕“爱”变负担。一个重点中学的高三女生,却长期深陷心理困扰之中,不止一次欲以轻生换取妈妈的关注。这一切源于妈妈的“爱”——有条件的、控制性的、令孩子窒息的爱。广州市未成年人心理咨询与援助中心的心理专家林少惠剖析个案,向广大家长建议说,给予孩子平等、独立、赏识、完全接纳的爱,才能让孩子成长为平和、喜悦的幸福之人。案例:重点中学女孩轻生小安(化名),广州某重点中 Conditional “love ” so that key high school girls wandering suicide marginalized. Experts: vigilance “love ” change the burden. A key middle school girl, but long-term deep psychological distress, more than once to despise in exchange for mother’s attention. All this stems from the mother’s “love ” - conditional, controlled, the child’s choking love. Lin Shao-hui, a psychologist at Guangzhou’s Minors Counseling and Assistance Center, analyzes the case and advises the parents that giving children equal, independent, appreciative and fully acceptable love will allow them to grow into peace and happiness. Case: focus on high school girls give birth to a small (a pseudonym), a key point in Guangzhou