本期“找我吧”刘月: 对于女人来说,交谈意味着参与、兴趣和关心。而男人,交谈就是工作,因为他们利用交谈来表达和传递实际的信息。在家里,男人们则希望得到充分的休息,而不想多说什么。想要你的丈夫多开口说话,请试试下面的方法。 1 选择适当的时机当你有重要的事要告诉丈夫时,你很想马上告诉他,而丈夫也许此时正需要休息,想以后再谈。 2 让他争取主动有时男人的沉默会使女人感到受挫折并开始发怒。你可以平静地注视他以便不使自己觉得不安。然后,如果他仍不出声,可 This issue “find me” Liu Yue: For a woman, talking means participation, interest and concern. And men, talking is a job because they use conversation to convey and communicate the actual message. At home, men are hoping to get enough rest without wanting to say anything. Want your husband to speak more, please try the following method. 1 Choose the right time When you have something important to tell your husband, you really want to tell him right away, and your husband may need rest at this time and want to talk later. 2 Let him fight for initiative Sometimes a man’s silence will frustrate a woman and start to get angry. You can watch him calmly so as not to disturb yourself. Then, if he still can not say anything,